Sunday 14 December 2008

花花世界



入夜后的商业街,人潮开始活络起来,闪烁的霓虹灯点燃了男人心中的野性。
如果对自己的爱人或家人的承诺不够坚定,减压或许就成为他们天天夜夜笙歌的借口。
一个人在这里的生活虽然孤独寂寞,但在网络上与你们的交流,可以让我感觉到你们的好,你们的温馨,让我忘了此时的空虚。
日子一天一天的过去,转眼间已经在这里过了半年的时间。
谢谢你们一路来的陪伴与支持,谢谢!

7 comments:

ccc said...

哇哇哇!小心一失足成千古恨哦!还是上网好。:)

真快,半年就这样过去了。

金毛 said...

对啊!幸好有你们,还有就是上网也比较便宜!:)

呜。。。我又老了半岁!:(

ccc said...

嘿嘿,不是价钱的问题,免费的野食更危险!介绍你看这里。 XP XP

金毛 said...

呃!怎么联络不上啊! (?.?)

真抱歉!可能是我的网页不好,妳可以写下网址吗?

不好意思!再次麻烦妳了!
如果没问题的话,哪我先说声谢谢妳咯!

:)

ccc said...

http://jimbocyberdoc.wordpress.com/2008/12/09/19-and-wild/

金毛 said...

哎哟!
我的电脑真的出现问题啦!
联络不上妳所提供的网址。
不好意思了!枉费妳的一番好意!

;(

金毛 said...

哈!哈!
我找到网页啦!
谢谢妳啦!
;)

A 19-year-old teenager was referred to me from one of the peripheral clinic last week. She was of mixed-parentage. She walked into my clinic accompanied by a man whom she claimed to be her ‘god-father’.

She had mistrust in her eyes even as I probed her for her history.

She was referred because she was detected to be HIV+ on a routine pre-institute admission health check.

She answered all my questions in a tentative and non-committal fashion.

No, she don’t do drugs.

No, she doesn’t drink.

Yes, she had a couple of sex partners but she didn’t elaborate.

Yes, she had blood transfusions before a couple of years ago when she had intestinal bleeding from taking paraquat to kill herself.

No, she doesn’t work. She sits around all day doing nothing.

Yes, she feels weak. She can’t sleep.

And that was it. She offered no additional information.

I tried to explain to her as best I could what HIV is and how it will affect her life. I found her to have very little insight and despite my explanations, she appeared to be not too distressed.

She had only one question:

“Can I get married?”

Later I asked her to leave my room so that I could have a private conversation with her ‘god-father’. The man who came with her was actually from her church. The church elders were concerned with her wild behaviour and wanted to send her to a correctional centre and because of the health check requirement prior to admission there, they discovered her HIV status by accident.

That was in April 2008!

8 months ago!

Apparently the doctors in the health clinic ‘lost’ her files and only managed to find it now and referred her to me.

In that 8 months, despite knowing her HIV status, she continued to have unprotected sex with young men, many of them, almost nightly! According to her god-father, she is a sex-addict and needs to have sex regularly. She grew up watching porn with her mother in the living room at night. In fact, a video of her having sex is being passed from phone to phone in her home town and has found its way into the internet. She was dismissed from a job in a local hotel because she was caught having sex with the employees there!

Oh God! This is a disaster in the making. It’s an ID physician’s nightmare.

She is the modern ‘Typhoid Mary’!

The boys who had sex with her might contract HIV; they will be asymptomatic for years and in that time, they will have sex with others, or get married and pass it to their wives who will pass it to their children!

‘Houston, we have a BIG PROBLEM!’

In the end, I did not know how to deal with this problem. Can we incarcerate such people? Are we allowed to?

I asked her god-father to approach the church elders to consider sending her to a half-way house and hopefully she can get some rehabilitation there.

She is 19, young, pretty, wild, ARMED and DANGEROUS!

Tues, 091208 @ 0700


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